Monday, June 23, 2008

Question....

What do you do when someone your really close to and love does or is doing something that is so so wrong to you....?

Nothing illegal but something that really bothers you? On one hand it's none of your business, aside from the fact that you know about it, but on the other, it's your business BECAUSE you found out / know about it.

It's a pickle.

4 comments:

sparklingmama said...

I would definitely confront the person about the issue.

It's been my experience that things like this eventually bubble to the surface and become problematic. It's better to deal with it right away rather than letting it fester.

~Shiona~ said...

Yes you should not let things get out of hand. If you found out it was for a good reason. Definitely ask them about it.

littlemansmom said...

Seeing as it's someone close to you and it's something that really goes against your grain, I'd say something. After all, you are just voicing your opinion/concern right...you're not telling them what to do. As someone close to you, they should be able to take your comments as they are meant. If you don't, it'll fester and could ultimatley damage the relationship.

Erin said...

Thanks all....your right, I should talk to them about it! It's crazy the situations some, generally bright, people get themselves into! I've known this person for almost 15 years so should be able to talk to them!